Wednesday, November 21, 2007

Why Being Really Lonely is Sometimes Super-Awesome

Yes, this title was inspired by an episode of scrubs.
When i first made this post, i figured i would just joke around and not make it much of anything (much like most of my blogs). But then it dawned on me, i am seeing, more and more, that the single life seems to be the way i am enjoying myself.
Now, i guess i should put this out first. I am constantly looking for companionship, and i very much do enjoy the female companionship that i do have right now, and given the chance and circumstance, i would take a serious relationship. But, i have also taken notice to how some people dont even look happy in such a serious relationship.
This is the main point to my argument, people may think they are happy, or even worse, fake being happy, just for some selfish reasons. And of all places to see this going on, being in college is a great place to just observe. And that is what i sometimes do, but seriously, not in one of those creepy ways. As i am walking through the halls of my dorm, i see many things. And aside from people talking on their phone, sitting on the stairs and blocking my way, i see people who are in relationships and who are in various stages of their relationship.
And next to people having sex (which is frankly annoying and kinda rude) the most frequent thing i see people who are in what seems to be an awkward "im happy but im miserable" sort of state. This usually consists of the couple sitting or standing really close to each other, talking in a soft, low, and quiet voice, and they usually dont look very happy.
Since i'm not creepy, i dont listen in on what they are talking about, but from what it looks like, it doesnt look very good.
Now dont get me wrong, this might be just one case of a few bad relationships that i happen to walk by as im walking through the halls, but it does tell me something about what i want from a relationship, and that is someone whom i can have fun with but also be able to have normal conversations with (and by normal conversation, i mean conversation with some ammount of content, not just random bullshit). But most of all, what i am looking for is a meaningful relationship with someone, the only problem with that is that i dont know how to do that.

6 comments:

Kristin said...

I think that a lot of times people end up finding someone when they least expect it. I know it sounds really cliché, but I can't tell you how many times I've seen that happen. One day you'll be walking to class or at the grocery store, and there she'll be.

Anonymous said...

Indeed, Kristin. Indeed. The best relationships just happen. Out of nowhere.

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